From my early learning days, I remember how the control of one's temper was always emphasized especially in Hadith. Now,
#16 An Nawawi Collection
On the authority of Abu Hurairah (may Allah be Pleased with him), who said : a man said to the prophet :
"Counsel me". He said : " Do not become angry". The man repeated [his request] several times, and he said: "Do not become angry ".narrated by Bukhari
"Counsel me". He said : " Do not become angry". The man repeated [his request] several times, and he said: "Do not become angry ".narrated by Bukhari
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I think about it over and over again. It's short, simple and straightforward. But still I don't understand why I don't apply it to my lifestyle. In the past, I had a very hot temper. In fact, people [especially my family] often described me as borderline agressive. Over the years though, I learnt to control my temper. I started passing on my emotions to other things - reading, TV, movies, poetry, writing etc. It indeed made me a happier person. I looked at things from all perspectives possible before acting upon it.
Recently however, I'm losing my temper so fast you'd think I've become Russell Crowe or something. I know it's wrong and like everyone else, I blame it all on stress levels being high. I'm running out of patience and the people around me aren't making it any easier, picking up little annoying fights for no reason.
*Zahratique's Prayer*
"Ya Allah, You are the Subduer and Constrictor. Please assist me in controlling my anger. I seek refuge from you from resorting to the acts of Shaitan, the accursed."
I also came across a very helpful website. I hope it helps anyone to deal with control of their temper - Click Here
22 comments:
Wow, i can't remember how i came upon your blog but i wanna say keep it up. You see, my last gf's a muslim. We in da same school and i always tell my friends, i've never had any relationship that can be compared to it. It was awesome. Unfortunately, issues forced us to abandon midstream.
Sorry, this offtopic, just wanted to show some love. Hopefully i'll be back later to read more. Cheers!
Hi Ugo, thanx for dropping by. Sorry ur relationship didnt work out.
Thanx for the prop too. Actually, I was inspired by some of my wonderful friends who were so consistent with their weekend bible study. hopefully I'd be able to reform my life too. Thanx :)
i suppress my anger by keeping happy thoughts and diplomatically handling unnecessary conversation that will lead to anger explosion...
@ Unnaked soul: I wish i could do that. It's not an easy task. I am the typr that bottles my anger and then suddenly let looose... I'm changing tho :) I'm getting better by the day. Thanks for Dropping by
Hi.Nice blog you have. I hope you get to reform and find meaning in your life. keep it up
Thanx thanx :) Sorry i havent updated in a while...busy busy busy!
First,
Thanks for the birthday wishes, really appreciate it.
2nd,
I love this page!
love what are doing,and I hope your journey will be succesfully.
3rd,
am glad you are diverting your energy into something new and purposeful, anger can do alot of things,that can't be undone.
the 'russel crowe' anger ain't good at all. lol!!! anger is something that's always at the tip of my finger (God help me!) i need to conquer it.
muslim or no muslim, u are cool. and i like your blog.
oya come lets play ten-ten on my blog
thanks for checking out my blog! I completely appreciate it "big time". hey, I didn't quite get you on this "A confused Muslim Hausa Nigerian girl at a crossroads in life blogging about my path to defining myself". well, i can only wish you all the best in life. Tekia. your blog is realy cool
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